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One Person Makes a Difference

Thursday June 28, 2018 #980

“I am only one, but still I am one. I cannot do everything, but still I can do something; And because I cannot do everything I will not refuse to do the something that I can do.”

~Helen Keller

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This beautiful quote has always been a favorite. The simplicity and the challenge of her message says that no matter what gifts or resources we possess, all of us are capable of doing something to make our families, our communities, our organizations, and ourselves a little bit better than if we did nothing.

Yes, I am only one. You are only one. But if each of us does one thing today to provide a bit of positive energy to someone or something, we can make at least a small difference. And maybe something much larger. If we possess character, what we cannot do is do nothing. Over 3,000 people read JAM with Mike globally. Imagine if all of us made a difference every day.

What will you do today?

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Distractions

Tuesday June 26, 2018 #979

“You will never reach your destination if you stop and throw stones at every dog that barks.”

~Winston Churchill

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We all tend to waste time away from what we are meant to be doing, and to be achieving, distracted by innumerable “barking dogs”. These distractions come in many forms: mobile devices, TV, “other people’s problems”, being drawn into negative or gossipy dialogue, and at times our own laziness. While not all of these can be avoided, if you are serious about living to your purpose and achieving what you are capable of doing, you must focus your attention on those actions that move you forward,

This does not mean maniacally doing nothing but work or altruistic and purpose-driven activities. We must also allow time for reflection and relaxation and renewal. But these too can and must be purposeful to maximize your potential.

To begin, pay attention to what is distracting you. Decide with courage and purpose to allow the distraction or to ignore it and remain focused on your intended actions. Over time, you will become better able to manage your attention and focus. It is worth the effort!

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Choose Courage Over Comfort

Thursday June 21, 2018 #978

“To stay truly alive, we need to choose courage over comfort so that we keep growing, climbing, and challenging ourselves, and that means not getting stuck thinking we’ve found heaven when we’re simply sitting on the nearest plateau.”

~Susan A. David, PhD

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As you travel on your journey of life, you will sometimes find yourself in a time of comfort where you have achieved goals you set out to achieve and are feeling pretty happy with things. When these times occur, there are two important things to consider:

  1. Reflect on the moment and what has been achieved, give yourself credit for your own strength and talents (without arrogance), and be grateful for all those who helped you along the way. Take time to thank people as well as to celebrate and feel the positive emotions that achievement can bring.
  2. DON’T STOP MOVING FORWARD! Despite how good this moment may feel, you must keep pushing yourself to take everything that you’ve learned to this point and apply it to new goals, aspirations, people to help and things to achieve. The world never stops moving forward, so what you’ve achieved today will not keep you successful and content for long. This is merely a plateau on which to gather your strength and courage to ascend to the next part of your life’s mission.

Life is a journey that only ends when we die. You’re still alive, truly alive – keep moving! Choose courage over comfort.

June 23, 2018 Posted by | Uncategorized | | Leave a comment

Being Present Today

Tuesday June 19, 2018 #977

“We’re so busy watching out for what’s just ahead of us that we don’t take time to enjoy where we are.”

~Bill Watterson

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I am thrilled to present a guest JAM from new JAMmer ZC. Her observation is excellent and I hope you find the inspiration from her JAM to take some time today to reflect on your day, what you are grateful for, and pushing yourself intentionally to ‘be in the moment’ so as not to miss the many daily miracles around you.  Here is Z’s submission in its entirety:

 Here’s a contribution to the collective storytelling, truth nuggets, wisdom revealing circle of life of JAM with Mike. I love stories and I love the act of people sharing their wisdom with others, so we can grow together.

Often times, our goals and the next steps to reach them take over our daily lives to such extent that we forget to appreciate and truly live for today. In between the sprint towards the next agenda item and today’s both planned and unforeseen happenings, there is a gorgeous sunset, a child’s smile, a stranger’s kindness and our own courage to show up for our lives, right here, right now, never to be discounted.

For thousands of years, people across various backgrounds, ethnicity, age, and gender have been asking for the simplest of things. “Give us our daily bread” in the Lord’s Prayer caught my attention the other day. Why not ask for tomorrow’s big feast? Because all we really want is to enjoy today. And today can be simple and beautiful if only we paused for a moment to enjoy what is in front of us right now.

Honor yourself and those present in your day whether at work or at home by honoring today.

3 simple strategies to honor today:

 1)    Start your day with writing down three things you are grateful for and what would make today great (2 minutes)

 2)    End your day with writing down three amazing things that happened today and what could have gone better (2 minutes)

 3)    Throughout the day, as challenging situations arise ask yourself “Am I authentically me in this moment”? (10 seconds)

 Many thanks,

ZC

Thank you Z, for this inspiring JAM!

I’m spending some time today to follow the 3 strategies above. How about you?

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Focus on Impact

Thursday June 14, 2018 #976

Focus on money and we will make money. Focus on impact and we will make an impact.”

~Simon Sinek

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Most of us work in the for-profit sector. Our internal and external stakeholders depend on us to contribute to the sustainable profitability of the organization. However, how we go about making profit is a choice. We can make money for money’s sake, or we can make money to make a positive impact.

Today, employees expect their organizations to be providing a positive impact on all stakeholders, as well as the communities and environment in which we operate. In your organization, is it clear what impact is made by the company’s success? If so, what can you do to increase that impact? If not, what can you do to help lead a discussion to define the purpose of your organization in a way that motivates high engagement and a drive for making a positive impact.

If you are the titled leader, make purpose and impact the foundation of your drive for sustainable profitability. I you are not the titled leader, you can still lead a push to talk up the impact your company is making, or lead the effort to define the impact. In either case, make a positive difference to make your workplace one that focuses on impact vs. just money.

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Lead With Conviction

Tuesday June 12, 2018 #975

“One man with conviction will overwhelm a hundred who have only opinions.”

~Winston Churchill

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One of the most important elements of an effective leader is the ability to commit to a course of action, and champion that decision with conviction. I watch many leaders with good intentions hesitate, afraid to make a decision, particularly when there are many competing opinions on the direction to take.

While it is important for you as a leader to take the time to listen and be open to dissenting opinions, at some point you must make the call. The speed at which the decision must be made depends of course on the circumstances. If one of your team members is capable and accountable, let them decide and then support them. But if it is a decision that is yours to make, gather the opinions of your team and then decide quickly and with conviction.

Your team needs you to be clear with the objectives this decision will support, open to listening to alternative potential solutions, and then decisive and firm in the direction you decide.

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Be The Driver of Your Life

Thursday May 31, 2018 #974

“If an egg is broken by an outside force, life ends. If broken by an inside force, life begins. Great things always begin from the inside.”

~Jim Kwik

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Your purpose in life can only be served by effort and growth from within. While you can and must seek help, guidance and partnership from others, even these don’t just show up at your door. You must take action, make the effort, ask for help.

When we do nothing, waiting for our proverbial “ship to come in”, we leave ourselves at best with less than we’d have otherwise, and at worst with a damaged life as life happen to us.

Be the active driver of your life. Be sure your life breaks in the direction of your dreams, of your highest ideals, creating the potential and even the eventuality of great things for you and those around you.

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Choose Your Path

Tuesday May 29, 2018 #973

“If you don’t like the road you are walking, start paving another one.”

~Dolly Parton

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We all go through times at work or in a relationship where we see things through a negative lens. At least internally, and unfortunately often externally, we complain about our circumstances. Many people get lost in their negativity and cannot change the lens through which they are viewing the situation. This leads to a downward spiral of negative emotions, thoughts, and actions which can alienate others and even cause psychological and physical pain.

It doesn’t need to be like that. Usually, if we can pause and reflect objectively, the reality is far less negative than it seems in the moment and we can take simple actions to either make a change in our own perception or behavior, or courageously confront the situation to resolve it. Finally, if the situation is objectively untenable, you need not remain on the current path. You can always choose to “start paving another one”.

Don’t ever get stuck in patterns of negativity and their consequences. Be the owner of your life and choose the paths upon which you will travel.

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Positive vs. Negative

Thursday May 24, 2018 #972

“The positive thinker sees the invisible, feels the intangible, and achieves the impossible.”

~Winston Churchill

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The research shows with indisputable evidence the power of focusing our energies and time on positive vs. negative thinking, people, and experiences. And yet, so many are led by negative thinking and assumptions.

With a negative mindset, there is almost no chance of seeing potential opportunities, attracting the kinds of people we need to help us achieve our potential, or overcoming hardships. A positive mindset, on the other hand, releases incredible energy in us and those we interact with, creating amazing possibilities and attracting all we need and more.

We all have both positive and negative tendencies. We must therefore act with intention to surround ourselves with positive influences, ban negative influences whenever possible (including our own dark thoughts), and build an environment in which we can be our best selves. In this way, we are far more likely to leverage our positive energy and achieve our potential, while helping others achieve theirs.

Will you join me on this journey?

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The Real Secret

Tuesday May 22 2018 #971

“When you begin to help yourself, which means to make the best of what is in yourself, you begin to attract to yourself more and more of those helpful things that may exist all about you.”

~Christian D. Larson

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There is much said about our ability to change our situation to the one we want, and to attract our desires by thinking positively about the outcomes we want. This is known as the Law of Attraction, made famous by the book The Secret.

It is true that when we consistently put good into the universe it comes back to us (if we’re open to it!). The Law of Attraction talked about in The Secret is only 1/3 of the REAL secret. Consistent good thoughts + consistent good actions + openness to receiving goodness that creates the magic. Without action and openness, good thoughts have no power.

Definitely focus on positive intentions. But… Be open to your potential for receiving good, and be willing to consistently take action to get your positive energy in motion.

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